My Self Worth Is Not For Sale

As I sit at my computer, I am constantly thinking back over conversations I have had with women of various ages, and it infuriates me some of the things they have experienced while dealing with the men in their lives.

The resounding thread that binds all of my interactions is that the men don't value them or they feel that the men don't really understand their worth. The question I constantly asked all of these women is, "Do you know your worth?" You see you can't expect someone to treat you in a way that you don't believe you are deserving of yourself. They want to be treated like queens but don't set the standard for that type of treatment.

You can't behave like a commoner and expect royal treatment. What I mean by that statement is that you can't ever demean yourself or compromise for the sake of companionship and expect to still be held in a high regard. I have been told by some men that I think too highly of myself. I disagree, what I am hearing those men say is that they aren't willing to do what it takes to have me. You see I am as valuable as the rarest gem you could ever find, so you will not treat me like cheap or costume jewelry.

It is apalling to see how many women will allow men to demean and degrade them just to say they have a man. I would rather die alone before I would allow any man to mistreat me or not recognize the good thing that he has in his life. I don't believe it is being arrogant or conceited. I believe it is exuding a positive self image and knowing my worth. It is time out for women settling. They need to hold men accountable for how they interact with them. If they don't like the treatment, move on to the next guy.

Men would want women to believe there is a shortage on good men. I beg to differ. I believe that women need to broaden their mind and definition of what a good man is. I personally am not opposed to dating a man from another culture. I have tried my own. I have not been successful, so now it is time to possibly venture into unknown territory. Love knows no boundaries or limits. I am now open to truly living a limitless life.